
Vervewell’s Blake discusses his SHEEN protocol
How a simple acronym transformed my approach to health—and why I’m still learning. As a therapist, I spend my days helping others navigate their challenges, yet my journey toward optimal health
This isn’t fluff. These are real thoughts from real therapists—reflections on identity, grief, relationships, anxiety, and the daily work of being human. Our blog is a space to offer clarity, compassion, and occasional irreverence, just like our sessions.

How a simple acronym transformed my approach to health—and why I’m still learning. As a therapist, I spend my days helping others navigate their challenges, yet my journey toward optimal health

Couples therapy isn’t just for repairing relationships, it’s also a powerful space for building strong foundations, including the creation of healthy boundaries. Simply put, boundaries allow us to express, “This is

I work with couples frequently. Many have teamed up with me for years for on-going, regularly scheduled sessions to support their on-going, dynamic relationships. I am continually honored to work with

We are highlighting Beth’s SHEEN method in today’s Monday email. While not a reinvention of the wheel, the SHEEN method is a fusion of really good ideas, spelled out in a

let’s change that In our relationships, communication is the key to connection, understanding, and intimacy, but sometimes couples experience challenges that can hinder their ability to communicate effectively. This is where

Self-acceptance is the practice of fully embracing ourselves—our strengths, our weaknesses, and everything in between—without judgment. It’s recognizing that emotions like anger, sadness, anxiety or even laziness aren’t inherently “bad”; they’re
Vervewell therapists work with clients who may be experiencing regular bouts of anxiety. Sometimes anxiety shows up as panic. Learning simpler ideas like deep breathing and visualization are often utilized, as well as more complex modalities like reactive vs responsive, thought driven action, and curated headspace day after day.
Anxiety represents the psyche’s alarm system responding to perceived threats, both real and Imagined. Rather than simply suppressing symptoms, we’ll explore anxiety as a meaningful communication from parts of yourself demanding attention. You’ll develop sophisticated strategies for self-regulation while investigating the underlying conflicts your anxiety may be expressing. This involves learning to differentiate between realistic concerns requiring action and neurotic anxiety serving defensive purposes. By developing a more nuanced relationship with your anxiety, you transform it from tyrant to teacher, using its energy for growth rather than paralysis.